I used to think this way; my problem is (though it is a really nice problem to have) that i seriously enjoy my time spent with my wife. So while I love spending time by myself, when I do go out and ride for a long time, I always wonder what time I missed with her. I know that sounds pretty wuss to most, but I never really thought I would be that way. Before her, I used to ride every time I could and joined any group I could to ride. I will try to balance it in the near future, but it was my wish for her to join me to experience something I love to do.I look at it the other way. I'm fortunate that my wife hates bikes and will not ride. My time, my space.