[Whooshka]

I was looking at one of these for my 7 year old. I do have a Buddy Belt with handles to grab onto but I like this better as it will tie him to me, for the reasons you stated...

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[Whooshka]

I think it's probably a bit of a pain to strap it on your kid, mount yourself on the bike, then strap yourself in too.

And I get what your saying about the kid being pressed up against you that they become "fixed" in place and can't take it all in.